life update

Long time nv update this blog O_O' ... eniweiz.. let's make it short..

Someone from my department passed away today...

I just got the news around noon.... 

I know him becoz he was in my group at the last company getaway....

To be honest, I was shocked that someone so young (25y/o - younger than me lhe!) could get heart attack... i seriously thought it was impossible... but it happened... =s May he rest in peace... eventho i dun really know him, I think the memory will still be there... seriously when my colleague told me, I can picture him right away.... coz he has the very kind smile... aiyoyo... 

eniwei... so i went to my client's place.. and my colleague just went for some lunch time talk in our office.. n he was sharing with me what the presenter told him.... 

In life.. u need to be prepared for this 3 matters:

1. What happened if you die... like... n.o.w....? 

2. What happened if you live ur life till old age... but u r not in sound health... 

3. What happened if you have a longgg life.... 

Eniweiz.. coz the talk was about financial investment.. so u know... the answers to the 3 questions above are about investing/ putting a side $ for ur loved ones/ for rainy days/ for ur pleasure in ur old age... 

But really... I think... we can start to think abt it seriously.. not only on $$ matters.. but on our life as well.... 

1. What happened if u die now? will there be people crying for you? regretting ur loss? or happier that u r no longer making their life miserable?

2. What happened if you live ur life till old age but not in sound health? Will u have pple around u to "voluntarily" and sincerely caring for you? or will pple be happy that you "pay ur dues" with those illness?

3. What happened if you have a longgg life? Will you have pple to enjoy it with? will you be regretting the "long life" blessing? Will there be people cursing you to die faster..

Ofcoz the ideal way to the above is to have pple caring abt u SINCERELY... y? coz pple are afraid to be alone.. admit it... =) pple ARE afraid to be alone.. difference is just the degree of how much "aloneless" you can take....

Some needs more tangible friends (means u need the fren to go out with, to share tits and tats with......) rather than those with the "feelings and bonds" (means u know that that's ur fren and u know u can call on them anytime anywhere in whatever condition it is... - the ideal fren in need is a friend indeed kind..)... third type.. maybe I could say..person who "invests" in frenship..

Ok... so ive put my thots on this rather short blog (and rare blog) but i duno how to end this blog entry XD

Maybe... some word of advise (very religious one - considering i skipped church yesterday XD) is really, let God find you... and u wun feel that u r alone.. secondly.. start to look around you and please tell urself that the pple arnd u are frens.... make frens sincerely.... FRIENDS not enemy.... n dont start calculating every single soul who walk in your path of life..., whether or not he/she will give you "high return" on ur investments haha =p im not saying u can start letting others to make use of u loe yakh! and well.. tatz all folks!! ^^